"Come on Forrest. This young woman is anything but stupid."

How did you figure that out?

If you keep reaching out.. and people answer your questions.. and you do nothing.. What then?

She is just as "Stuck" now.. as she was when she was married.

How can "we" convey that too her?

She pulls back.. She reacts somewhat "Emotionally".. She is easily "steered".

I have been around a while.. and people need to "get" the concepts on their own. They need to understand why they do what they do.

If me calling her stupid gets her to that point.. I am ok with that.

If you think I am a as$ for calling her that.. I am OK with that.

The end goal is still to provoke a change.

"Feeling all the hurt that you've suppressed so long is the beginning of the healing process."

But to be honest.. I don't know if she really has an outlet that will support her in letting it all out.

I have strong feelings that doing so right now.. will just make things worse.

She is leading.. I am just poking her.. making sure this is the right way.

Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.