I would be careful psoting that link they have not been tolerant about that lately.

The poster makes some good arguments. I don't agree.

Especially exposing to children.( I can only hope he meant adult children)

Your job in this is to shield your children as much as possible form these adult situations.

Your job not to destroy your spouse in your children's eyes.

Actually I believe not your job to destroy them in anyone's eyes IMO.

There is no excuse for an affair.

What we do with this tragedy defines who we are.

So be careful. Act with honor, dignity and strength.

Honor to believe in the right choice.

Dignity in knowing only your choices define who you are.

Strength to make that decision even when it is difficult to do so.

I owe someone a quarter for that one. Can't remember who.


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am