Oh, I'm not convinced at all! That's why I'm so confused now.
Oh! That actually kind of surprises me... the way you were talking it sounded like you kind of had your 'heels dug in' about it! And I have to admit, when you talked about her not kissing... well that surprised me. (Frankly I think she's watched that old Julia Roberts movie 'Pretty Woman' too many times) Anyways I wish I had some words of wisdom for you, but all I really know is that although things may never be as perfect as we hope, they also rarely turn out as badly as we fear.
All you can really do is to keep asserting yourself, speaking your needs, and do the best you can to communicate honestly, clearly and with self-respect and integrity. Someone said to me the other day that all you have to do is do 'the next right thing'. That just made sense to me; after all, what else can be done?
Originally Posted By: pinhead
And don't doubt for a second that I value your perspective tremendously.
PS that's very kind... although I'm not sure my perspective is that valuable, but you sure have my respect and support.
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
