He told me that the delay was costing money. H is a business person. He is decisive, intelligent and very money conscious. The only thing I can see is that he is sitting on the fence....too scared to take the final step. He's had numerous opportunities to do this. There's a pattern here......
Cas, I think the men in our lives are twin sons of different mothers (borrowing from Dan Fogelberg and Tim Weisberg). My XH is also very money conscious and co-owns a small business.........and rigid in his thinking. Big difference though was that H/XH shoved the D down my throat. I told him that I needed more time to get used to the idea (he wanted the D to be final 5 months after the bomb) because I was trying to buy time to DB. I was SO frustrated that he was SO single-minded that I told him that if he insisted on the D then I would cut him off and never speak to him again......and I meant it. He said "That's not what I want" ) ARGHHHHHHH!........and within 24 hours had agreed to my terms for the D decree.
