actually agree with a lot of what Truegritter has had to say on other threads, but do not agree here. i believe in exposure. i did it. W not happy. even now still sense simmering anger at me for having done it. but look at this from marriagebuilders.com as it may help.
if i could do it all over again would do it again same way albeit much sooner bc would have gathered intel then. i KNEW something was up. i was right. i could have nixed it then. but then again maybe it had to run its' course the way it did bc OM would still have been in my backyard w/ my WAS right with him.