Good rule is to wait 48 hours until the emotion dies down a bit.
Look nothing is going to get solved on a Sunday night.
Try to relax. (Easier said than done)
I will try to post your thread over here.
There has been a lot of debate to expose or not expose of late.
I am of the opinion that you will not change anything other than make it harder to detach and begin to work on yourself by putting a bunch of energy into snooping, spying and exposing.
Let me start with ths question
What do you hope to accomplish by exposing?
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
