Need advice: Have been NC w H for a couple of weeks now. Very dim a few weeks prior to that. I don't know if H is having any kind of A, as I don't follow his activity. When he questioned my NC I said "I wasn't able to be in a relationship with him while he behaved inappropriately as a H."
I have now rec'd a text from him asking if he can email me a list of items he'd like me to "let him have" from the house, and that he'll sign of on whatever I want him to (D, house) if he can have these items. He also states that we can talk if I want, but he doesn't want to invade my space since he senses I don't want to talk any more.
Do I respond? I feel like this is heading for D but have not filed or picked a lawyer. I feel like him saying he isn't going to 'invade my space' by talking to me is a cop out, way for him to blame me for 8 months of HIM not saying anything about his As, getting a D, our M, anything. At begining of NC he said that he knew he hadn't stepped up and talked/communicated like he should have.
Any advice appreciated. NC means talking business, and I'm not sure if this qualifies.
M--14 years T--20 years, HS sweethearts dday #1--2002 EA dday #2--2005 bar sl*t dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years