Hey Sunny

A good rule of thumb that we like to say is wait 48 hours in a highly emotional sitch.

I'll have to catch up on your threads.

Originally Posted By: SunnyD
I'd already told him months ago I wouldn't put up with a 3rd party.


That was a boundary yes?

I think one we all have/had before coming here.

Did you define what a 3rd party was?

Cause he is saying it's nothing right?

Boundaries are to protect you. Not to force, coerce or punish.

And

They must be enforced or you are a paper tiger

You have read this from me on other threads I'm sure.

So

Do you need to ring that bell?

Do you need this for you?

How will you enforce this?


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am