Truegritter agains speaks words of truth. detach means letting go and not allowing yourself to feel emotionally tied to ur W. she is all over the place, truly. if u allow her then she will drag u down that wayward path with her. do not allow her.
my W and I have 5 kids. the OM had 4. did these 2 effing people think they were going to have a life together? he lives in FL w/ his W and family (but was working up here for 6 months until recently moving back) who went to grade school w/ my W and it all started as EA on FB before progressing to PA. no. he was not going to move into my house. get that bulldozer first.
u too need to stop accepting pandering to her. helping her now that u r out of the house only sends the message that this all ok. it is most decidedly not. is the OM married? does he have a W and family? did u expose? do not allow her to sneak around and pretend there is no cost associated with her actions and her A. u obviously have intel. use it if u have not already. seriously. google exposing infidelity, harley. u will find it.
there is an underlying attachment betw u two. but detaching means salving ur feelings bc right now she has ZERO regard for them.
here is Tupy's overcoming infidelity part 1 courtesy of Allen. where is he BTW? booted off the forum?
