Here is my update, any advice from this point on is appreciated.
As of right now, my wife hasn't said a word to me in 4 weeks. She won't discuss anything about the kids, nothing, all by text. I have to get updates about the boys school from him.
I can't find another story where someone has dealt with this.
I am not 100% sure of OM, I am 99.9% sure, just by the clues.
She is cocky, arrogant, and not talking is a blessing in a way, she always made a point of saying it is over and this is best for the boys.
I would like to think there is hope down the line, I just can't see it. I love my wife, kids, family..
Advice?
M-38 W-37 T-16,M-11 (Oct 30,1999) S-5 S-2 Wife left 7/4/2010
"When life hands you a lemon, say, 'Oh yeah, I like lemons! What else ya got?" — Henry Rollins