He definitely didn't plan. He had no idea what a divorce entailed until after he said he wanted out. Although, this is also his personality. Make a decision, THEN think about consequences. I want to DB, just at a loss right now.
The OW... not her first time being involved with a married man.

(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."