Originally Posted By: newmama
How confusing is that for the kids of divorce who have an enternal hope for their parents to get back together?



Yes! My daughter still has hope for her family. Just last week D8 told me that Mommy was going to bring a cupcake to my apartment but she didn't think I would be home. She(D8)has called me on the phone before to tell me that Mom was crying about something D8 said and she thought that meant that her Mom still loved me. This poor girl will never totally lose hope that her parents still love each other and I wonder if her Mom told her this news to try to get her to lose that hope.


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final