Hi, I am a bit of a newcomer and it has been suggested I post on this site given my new circumstances.

My H said he wanted a D 9 weeks ago. We are separated. We work together. I found out this wkd he is having an A. Evidence of EA in April. Almost certain it is PA now. He still hasn't filed D papers. He has been noticing my 180. The OW works with us too. I don't know what to do about confronting or not. I have to see them both tomorrow. I very much wish I knew how to link this with my other thread so you can see my whole situation.


(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."