Oh, sorry forgot to answer. Not pursuing, have been "friendly neighbors".
Yes, she appears to definitely be taking advantage of the situation. The e-mails are her initiating. She plays a very sweet, innocent role at work. I have no doubt she will drive him away. She is very motivated to get married/have kids, settle down right away... a reason she is (was) still single. How long will it take? I don't know. He will feel incredibly trapped and disillusioned when it happens. I do know him well enough to know that.
Yes, no doubt his is in inner turmoil. It is like he is having a MLC at 33.


(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."