Oh, sorry forgot to answer. Not pursuing, have been "friendly neighbors". Yes, she appears to definitely be taking advantage of the situation. The e-mails are her initiating. She plays a very sweet, innocent role at work. I have no doubt she will drive him away. She is very motivated to get married/have kids, settle down right away... a reason she is (was) still single. How long will it take? I don't know. He will feel incredibly trapped and disillusioned when it happens. I do know him well enough to know that. Yes, no doubt his is in inner turmoil. It is like he is having a MLC at 33.
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."