I think that is what attracted him to me and scared him away all at the same time.
Lol - I had the same problem. I had trouble with the warm fuzzy side. Actually in my sitch, once I knew of the A, pursuing my H helped because it was a 180. He had felt neglected by me before - a bit as though he was a spare part. I had made him feel surplus to requirements.....whilst that was never my feeling nor my intention.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength