Journaling now about possible goals if I end up having a conversation with Mr. A.
Major point: He isn't willing to stop going after other women. If he were, he would have said so.
So that's that. We can't be involved anymore because I told him I wouldn't stand for it. Why do we need to talk?
Maybe we don't - but I am just once again SHOCKED by the disconnect between our expectations. Ok, ranting for a second---
#1: We HAD the "exclusivity talk" a few weeks ago!!! I told him I was NOT seeing anyone else, he told me he was NOT seeing anyone else. WTF?
#2: Even if we hadn't had that talk, he has been living out of MY HOUSE for the past month! Yes, there were a few nights that we didn't stay together, but not many. He had his clothes here, his laptop, etc.
How do you stay at someone's house all the time, have sex with them, be romantic, spend evenings together, and still think it's ok to date other people?!?!? And the person you're doing that with is someone you were married to until two months ago and you lived with for seven years????? Again, WTFFFFFFFFF?????
I don't understand the rules of Mr. A's game. MOREOVER, this INSANITY is making me question my own assumptions! I mean, was I out of line to assume that we were exclusive if we were spending every day together?
I want Mr. A to account for his actions to me. How can he rationalize his behavoir?
I wouldn't put it *exactly* that way to him, but that's what I want to know.
