Thanks KML. Unfortunately the OW was the reason for the D and she is not great to my kids, and says really mean things about me to my kids.
I think yes she is trying to stake her claim - my XH never ever collects them on his own. I asked him to come with me to a parents evening at my son's school and he said no and is going with her. I think she is scared to let him near me without her.
Yes and XH is probably trying to justify the distruction of our family i.e. I had no choice to get a D as I wanted to marry her. It will be good to have a stable relationship for the boys etc etc etc!!! Blah blah blah!!
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived