I'm sure your right although I guess I already posed an ultimatum of sorts with the "work on things or get out" deal. I can't say I lit him up too badly...probably should have more, actually. I stayed calm and composed most of the time but did a lot of crying too.
Honestly, I think he just wants to go back to fence-sitting and cake-eating. After going out to lunch (to put on a brave face for the kids) before my D went back to college, he asked if I wanted to go to the movies! ???
I will try not to discuss this with him further today, while I'm still emotional. However, right now may be the only time I have the guts to tell him it's time to put up or shut up! It'd be different if this was the first offense, but it's not. I'd already told him months ago I wouldn't put up with a 3rd party. Yet - he did it again, anyway.
