They remarry cuz they have to justify their behavior - and because the OW is nervous and needs to stake her claim.

My ex is with a girl 19 years younger, last time I was in his place I noticed she had caught the bridal bouquet at a recent wedding and hung it up to dry in the dining room. Think she's pressuring him? Lol.

Still - she's nice to my college-aged kids, she wasn't involved in the divorce, and I feel kinda sorry for her - she's not getting the same guy I married.

Doesn't bother me cuz I DON'T want him back! I hope she will care for him in his doddering old age so my kids don't have to.