'Is it a deal-breaker'... This is a really hard one. It is not a deal-breaker in that I would still go to marriage counseling and work on the marriage. Can I say that I could forgive this... not entirely sure. Possibly, would try.
How do I act toward him now? Do I confront him about this? Please help, I have to see him (& her) every day this week. Our professional world is small community, people will start to figure this out and I do not want to play their game and protect them. I can't believe I married someone that wouldn't be smarter than to fall into this trap. In the e-mails, she is obviously pursing him but he is certainly guilty of enjoying all the attention and flirting back. I am sure she has 'made him feel like a man'.
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
