Oh man my psost went south. I know what you are going through as this is my second marriage. I did all the wrong things in my first. Drove her away. Hang in there brother. She is still there. She is a stranger in your W's body. One minute she will hate you and the next your best bud. Say less and do more. Do more for your kids and yourself and let her see that you will be ok. I think guilt is the biggest issue in these sichs. It mask's the real love that is inside..
