My x just brought his ow to his parents' farm this weekend to meet the family...I know how much it hurts. However a good friend told me, "If he wasn't faithful to you, then he won't be to her, either. Now she gets to deal with his moods and his cheating, not you." Small comfort, but it's something...
I don't know if it will last. Many of these second marriages fail, and some that continue for years, only continue bc the WAS is so prideful he/she won't divorce and admit they once again made a mistake. So, try to let them worry about their marriage prospects. I know it isn't easy to let it go...
