Lea, that is a big blow...it's the last bomb we all fear. I know you must be feeling awful about this and perhaps time and reflection are the only things that'll get you through it but if you look at it objectively this won't change your life in any way. You'll still live your life the way you have been for the past several months until next year if he does get married.
The way I see it is they've been with other people and that's the hardest thing to accept and get over. Everything else is just stuff. Besides, M is really just a piece of paper...especially to the WAS type.
(((hugs)))
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
