I got the ILYBINIWY speech. She said we've grown apart, and she didn't "love me the way a wife should love a husband." I was devastated.
She's not attracted to you.
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"You sounded upset on the phone, is everything ok?"
Why ask that? You already know the answer.
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And she said "No! Aren't you stressed out too?"
I just kind of shrugged.
That's weak. Stop taking her temperature.
Here's what I "see" in you. You are afraid to take action but you want to control everything by stonewalling - stop going to MC because it mads you "feel" upset. Your wife won't be attracted to a emotionally weak man. You sound very scared, unsure of yourself and angry deep down. You exhibit passive-aggressive, co-dependent and pessimistic behavior.
Stop letting your feelings control you. Make yourself responsible for your own happiness. You have a choice in how you think, feel, and act.
