There are people who know the law around here. But I'm not one of them. Keep collecting you intel. It MAY or MAY NOT be at all useful.

Remember the divorce laws vary by state. It would be a good time to start to learn yours. If nothing else this will give you some confidence in your interactions with him.

If the D goes down, and I truely hope is does not, you need to protect yourself.

9 weeks is not a lot. Look at FutureUnknown's threads! He's been plugging away for nearly 2 years and its not settled.

Stay paitient. One of the pros will chime in and give you better advice soon.

M:37
W:34
M:4 years
T:6 years
No Kids
A disclosed - 9/1/2010
W asks for separation - 10/19/2010
Moving on - 10/24/2010
A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010
Content - 3/1/2011
Served - 3/18/2011
D Day - 6/20/2011