OK, thank you. I have made copies of the e-mails I found and while none of them incriminate them exactly, the intent is there. I made the copies thinking that I need to start protecting myself legally. What a moron for not changing his password... I'm sure the real proof lies in the text messages which I suscept a good lawyer can access. The EA was present in April. I suspect the PA didn't start until after he said he wanted the divorce, which then gave himself permission to go for it. However, he has still not filed and it has been 9 weeks! That would still be considered an A legally, right? Does that matter when it comes to dividing up assets etc.? I don't know why the first thought for everyone is to expose them, it certainly is/was mine. However, I know that it is not going to help anything...
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
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