Freema is piecing

[Lost Rabbit]

Freema hun, piecing is when both of you want to work at it and all hurts are set aside.

The key thing to piecing is boundaries, on the foremost your boundaries for what you will and wont expect of H. After all (not knowing the full story) he was the one that threw the spanner in the works and upped and left.

Whilst you may be involved in a lot of validating and giving, it does not mean that you become a doormat to get him back, as you said earlier you even questioned after all this time did you want him back.. If he really wants to set things straight he would be willing to do anything family councelling and marriage councelling..

They dont say peicing is the hardest thing you will ever do for nothing, but if you can make a new marriage all the better.

Personally although I would say in my situation he came back early mostly due to financial considerations, certainly there are some times I'd wished Id made him wait a little longer and been more determined to get back in my good book although thankfully we managed to push through those hard times and we have now been back together over six months.

Good luck hun, patience really is a virtue from now on (())