Wanted: Large dose of patience

[Sanderika]

Cas,


You have laid the path wide open for H. You have told him exactly where the papers are. Leave it alone now. Let H take the next step. Let him come to you....

You have also told him your opinion. He will be thinking about that for sure. I have come to realize they think long and hard on their choices and actions. We have a lot of power in creating their thinking and are able to send them into a tailspin with our rational and wise words.

This will be hard, I know.

If it's a mere case of Ostrichaphobia (LOL) then this is a classic case of running back inside the tunnel. Leave him alone for now. Limit your initiated contact back to only what is necessary topics about daughter and son.

If he's serious, you'll hear from him again real soon on the paperwork.

I wonder if he is simply feeling like a creep and it's his guilt over his past choices and actions that are screaming in his ear.
He has come so far in several weeks. Those who come a far distance back will slide several more times out of fear and guilt. They have to be extremely comfortable to stay out in the open. Your Patience and Forgiveness has brought him this far....

Sanderika