I some times think having watched them that once they have let go of OW and want to reiniate relationship with LBS they are a bit like the ostrich they do a little courtship dance and then when the LBO (Left behind ostrich) responds they promptly panic and stuff their heads in the sand.. It does seem that even when your darling Ostrich hubby sticks his head in the sand he keeps coming up and forgetting he'd planned to divorce you and again goes ahead with his little courtship dance and so on and so on.
So the question is how do you get him to dance a little longer each time
Rabbit, I LIKE this! Glad to hear that your reconciliation with H is going well!