MLC 5 years on

[Lost Rabbit]

Its hard getting to a place of letting go, it doesnt come easily and for each one of us its different so we cant say you should do it this way or that..

I let go very early on, I found NC almost peaceful and although they was no OW I couldnt have stayed friends as the pain would have just been too much, ironically as soon as I did let go and go on with my life as best I could for a month or two then H began to notice and feel my loss, its so hurtful not knowing hwo they could miss you for even an hour let alone months and maybe years but some how they do and so must we..

I wish you all the best Sanderika, you have a lovely son and a great relationship with him, work on that and what ever life brings around enjoy to the full xx