It does seem that even when your darling Ostrich hubby sticks his head in the sand he keeps coming up and forgetting he'd planned to divorce you and again goes ahead with his little courtship dance and so on and so on.
So the question is how do you get him to dance a little longer each time?
Great name for a thread, Rabbit....
My immediate reaction in response to the question is to give him the divorce and then he's got what he wants and it's not hanging over my head. That marriage is dead anyway.
And it could be the end of ow/oo(other ostrich) as well and he and I both know that to take this relationship to the next level she has to go. I've made that clear enough.
When I think about it, H has threatened divorce for three years now and when it comes to the crunch he's backed out every time by blaming me for stalling when in fact he's refused to negotiate. usually, he's very decisive. Tonight he tried to say that if I was going to make it difficult.......but I hadn't and I have written proof that all I said was that I will not stand in his way if that's what he really wants.
