On the other hand, IF it does turn out to the be BMF, which I find VERY strange. Perhaps you could return the favor by anonymously sending him the book "Dealing with Latent Homosexuality" LOL
Punkin, BELIEVE me that that I have explored that topic ad nauseam with BMF's X-GF (they dated for 3 years) and Jody. BMF has a long pattern of jumping from one woman to the next, sometimes 2 Rs at once. I think he gets a physiological high from the infatuation stage and the drama of sneaking around behind someone's back. Real addiction stuff......His mother had a very critical nature while he was growing up and even on her deathbed. I think he sees these Rs with women as a way of getting the nurturing he didn't get as a boy.
My armchair psychoanalysis thinks that XH is like a nurturing parental figure to BMF and BMF is a surrogate for XH's alcoholic mother. Just a guess. It would take years of psychoanalysis to figure THAT one out.
