Pinhead, what specific behaviours and/or words would you need to hear/see in your wife in order to feel/believe she's attracted to you?

Seriously, can you give us a list? I know it sounds dumb but try doing it... it really helps sort your mind out.

ps - it's gotta be specific - 'show more affection' doesn't count.

I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.