You certainly SEEM to be in a better place than I was when this was happening in my sitch ... but you know what? I said I was ok too. TAMF, I'm not saying you aren't... I'm just saying that I thought I was where you are only to find out that I wasn't. Clear as mud? Welcome to MLC.

Not sure if you've read my thread or not (might want to make a pot of coffee first LOL!) and I can't seem to get the links in my siggy to work, but you can search me and get them ...

Missher and I had this very discussion in late May/early June. Missher, Eric, me ... and many others ... have walked this exact path ...

Tread carefully ... and get really honest with yourself when all is quiet and there's nobody but you and your mirror ... look deep ....

Peace
PEI

Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc