Now I'm Walking Away Part 2

[john28]

Pin, you and I have been here startign with very similar situations. You've done a lot of stuff much better than I've seen most on these boards do.

But you've lost sight of your original goal here, man. You set out to save your M and make yourself a better man. Now you're basically saying, "I'm better than this M now. I want more."

I think you're being somewhat selfish, and you know that. You've changed a lot, and your mentality has shifted. Go back to how desperate and hopeless you first felt - your W is feeling that now. She has low self-asteem and doesn't know how to "fix this" - the same you felt in the beginning too.

I'm not saying moving out is not the right thing to do, only you can decide. But you're talking this one comment and answer from her way too personal and way too far. remember the "listen to nothing they say" statement?

Listen to yourself, what are you saying?

really?

Come on Pin, your W has that love and passion for you but neither you nor her know how to get there.