I like ya dude…you seem a lot like the old me and chit I like parts of that guy.
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There is individual responsibility which I have reluctantly but necessarily claimed.
If I recall you’re a big guy Crushed so I’ll watch what I say. I’m only 5’11” and 175 so I don’t want you coming up to CT to kick my as*.
“Reluctantly”….really you reluctantly claimed some responsibility. WOW
Ballsy dude.
I am reluctant to ask this questions BUT I will…
Do you love your W? Oh…Your W NOT her actions.
Crushed you may not be ready to hear this….
Do you want to be divorced?
If yes, then hey keep doing what your doing – your doing fine.
If no, then answer these questions..
Why are YOU here?
What does “fighting” for your M mean to you?
What does commitment mean to you?
AND FTR,
Fuc* your W right now…I am more concerned with YOU buddy.
If she D’d your as* tomorrow…
Who would Crushed be?
Is Crushed someone that will stand for his next R?
Is Crushed someone that will be a man of honor and character?
Is Crushed someone that will run at the first sign of trouble?
Who the hell is Crushed outside of his M?
Can you next R (which ftr could be with your w) count on you to be in their corner even when chit get tough?
Is Crushed someone that can ONLY love IF….HIS needs are met on HIS schedule and IN the manner that he wants?
Who are YOU Crushed….who are you?
Crushed, I came here broken and maybe you are nothing like me. Maybe your sitch is unique because it is happening to you. Here is the last piece of advice I can give you…
Do the work on yourself and NO matter what happens YOU will be better.
Better FOR YOU and
Better for YOUR next R….she will love you more than you know, WHY?
Cause seriously, you will have learned what it is to love with no conditions
Learned what true compassion is
Learned how strong you really are
Learned how much of a committed partner you are
Learned just how deep you can love…a love beyond just physical intimacy and common interest…
A love my friend, that only comes..when you know you are and take a
Step…to be the man that YOU always wanted to be.
Oh…and none of this chit…really has anything to do with your W.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
