TY 25! I agree 100% - this is up to me! I do take accountability for the problems in our marriage. He was justified in feeling hurt and angry. I pulled away from him.

I exposed to ppl I thought would help me fight for our M but I was very wrong about who would help. Marriage friendly people were not as abundant as I thought. I've had 0 angry exchanges with him and am proud of that. I check myself to make sure I'm not making decisions out of anger or revenge frequently. I've had to stop myself a few times but again- I have to protect myself and my S!

I'm GALing - need to read more I know. But emotionally I feel like I'm on the right path!

Thanks again!


Me:38 H: 45
OW:34
S:4 Bonus S: 12 and 16
2nd M for both
Together 12 yrs M: 6
EA suspected: 5/10 confirmed: 7/2/10
Separated: 8/12/10