Saffie, When I am around, he seems like he tries to pick out things. For example, today when I got upset with something he said and just simply said something innocent like “that’s not right” or something I would normally say, he tried to pick it apart to be the same way I was. I told him that I wasn’t griping or yelling at him, that I just disagreed was all. And he said this is why I don’t want to be with you, because of this b*thing you do. But he has good days and bad days, this was just a bad day. I wasn’t cheery when I went over there either though. Thanks for the link, I will check out that post. I mentioned the idea of me moving back in before he makes an ultimate decision to him a day ago and his response was that if he wasn’t over what I did, he didn’t want me to move back in. I have hurt him and unless he forgives and moves past it, he will never let me back in to his life. That’s just how he is and I have to try to prove myself within those limitations. When I see him to pick up my mail or get more clothes (since its getting cold) I will try to show my changes as much as possible. We do have plans to go to a NFL game in November that I had gotten tickets for before all of this came to pass, so that will be another opportunity.
