So H came and helped paint D17's room. They talked while they painted. She made it clear that he has caused her pain and she requires counseling. He responded better this time. Helped alot around the house since I am on crutches. Came back 3 days in a row, was cheerful, helpful and kind. My old H is back, the alien almost gone! As soon as I am off crutches we'll talk. I sense he would like to move back in right away but I need to sort out issues first. He refuses to do marital counseling. I wonder if anyone has any suggestions on how to move forward if both parties want to be together but one refuses counseling?
