NM, thank you so much for stopping by! I know you've been busy as heck lately, and going through a lot (emotionally and stress-wise).
I don't know what I think about going dark on Mr. A. I am sooooooo jumbled in my thoughts. Stupidly, as Mr. A started spending more time with me, I stopped GAL'ing - including coming here and even really taking any time to reflect at all, as well as pursuing my new found hobbies and interests (golf, mainly).
But - DUH! - that was one of the things that got us in trouble in the first place. I mean spending too much time alone together and not enough time interacting with the rest of the world. It gets old fast when you work at the same job, day in and day out, with the same people, and then come home to the same house with the same person and do the same thing. Human beings need the stimulation of new experiences and perspectives, KWIM?!?!
So now I have a very disorganized pro- and con- list of going dark, which I should sort out asap! Then maybe I can answer your questions honestly, because they are good ones but I just don't know right now.
