Hi impatient. Welcome. You joined a couple days before me, so we're at about the same place. I won't offer you too much advice but one thing I can recommend is just journaling everything you think happened. People here are veyr supportive. Listen to their advice. Also, you can create a signature with your stats. It is helpful to get an idea where you are coming from.
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011