Current thread MIA - here's the 4th

[Mystik]

As for me counter filing under A, I'm standing firm on this. H ended M due to A. H filed irretrievable breakdown - as if we just couldn't get along or something. H & I know that the real reason is A. I have no intention of letting H off the hook. He did it, he needs to own it. The whole pattern is indicative of a larger pattern of H shirking responsibility.

I allowed H to steam roller all my boundaries over the course of the R/M. Now I'm unwilling to do it.

I hear ya. That is what I am trying to decide. Stand my ground about not letting him off the hook, or let him continue to walk all over me.