It's best not to ASSume there is an affair and go snooping. The BEST thing is to bring more love into your relationship.

She hates your business. What does she hate about your business?

What else does she hate/not like?

What does she like/love? What did she used to like/love?

Don't focus on externals (things outside your relationship). Focus on internals. Things you can do more of, things you can do less of.

sg
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001