PEI, whether you believe in God, karma, or just the balance of nature..........God/the universe rewards those with a generous heart. The Bible says "Give and it shall be given unto you". ...........You have shown tremendous generosity and love toward your children by supporting them in this first meeting. You are a wonderful mother! It's clear how much you love your children and your love for them will be returned to you.

Eric, GREAT idea for a thread!!!!!!!! It's uplifting to read everyone's posts here.

Here's my short list: I'm thankful for......
--everyone here who so generously supports one another. You are ALL very special people!
--MWD for having the foresight to go against the cultural norm and support people in "standing" for their marriages
--Jody, my DB coach. She brings a fresh perspective to my situation every time I talk with her. She really rocks!
--my health
--my friends and family who have patiently listened to me throughout this crisis and provided support
--my job, which allows me to support myself
--my precious cat who snuggles me when I need snuggling
--my beautiful home
--that XH and I have been able to renew a friendship, in spite of D and OW.
--that XH's family have maintained friendships with me, even after the D
--for the lessons that I have learned about myself since the bomb, that will allow me to have a more fulfilling life in the future
--an unusually BEAUTIFUL autumn in the area where I live

Hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!

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