V1olin's new life without wife

[v1olin]

Thanks to both of you. My kids are my main concern here CL. I do not want them to learn this kind of behaviour in life. "Someone dumps on you and you just take it." I did not call her names(I wanted too) I did not tell her she could not date. I don't see what the problem is here with anything I said or did. How might you have handled that CL and still got the same point accross? I am interested to hear.