Trying to grow a backbone!

[newmama]

HI Mrs. A,

Here is what I think: Is there hope for reconciliation for you? YES. BUT this is not the right time since he is sleeping around with other women. Seriously!

So, what makes you afraid to take a break from him while he is sleeping around with other women?

A break is temporary, you know?

I think you are afraid of losing him forever. Is that right?
OR you are kind of addicted to the drama of your relationship?
I am fond of you, Mrs. A! So I am not trying to sound mean but I am concerned about your unwillingness to go dark for a break to let yourself heal for a bit and get your thoughts in order.