I absolutely do not want a D. There would be no real financial gain for me if I filed first. The only reason I would even consider filing is to have it on record that H's affair is why the marriage ended, not the no-fault no one's to blame way H is planning on filing.
New thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2112303
