Maybe we are sisters! I love horror movies too! Love to be scared (as long as I know it's not real.) Do you ever watch Ghost Hunters?
Your dish sounds delicious!
Next time your H contacts you and starts to push buttons, do a 180 on him and don't engage.
You got it about the piece of paper. Some MLCer's have to push it all the way to a divorce. They believe they will then find happiness.
This is his journey Punkin. It's his issues that he has to face and figure out. You have to step back and let him do it with no interference from you, as it will slow the process.
At the same time don't let him interfere with your journey. You are the one who gets to decide who Punkin wants to be.
