I've heard from very wise counsel that our MLCer's do indeed 'watch us'. I know my H does things to indicate that he's keeping track of me somewhat.
Not sure why given what they've done. Don't know if it's control, jealousy, not wanting to give up aspects of their old life, or possibly wanting to find out if we're moving on so as to help relieve their guilt?
Who knows? Anyway, I don't attach any expectations from these things. I just chalk it up to the weirdness that is MLC.
