Savemymarr, Geeez I hope he isnt a red neck too. My W is hooked up with a guy even her son can't beleive she's with. Go figure. She is from chitown and me NJ.
Hang in there hopeless. My W has been gone a month now. She saw me Thurs and said its over for good. I went dark right after. Try to detach. I know I wont hear from her till the W/E is over. When the booze wears off. I even delted her from my Cel. You need to sit back, pretend your at a drivein and observe what is going on. Let your heart heal little by little. Its real hard but if you love your W you need to let the drama play out. My W has alot of guilt right now and it blinds her and bonds her to OM since he was part of it. But under that guilt are her real feelings for me. As that guilt wears away other feelings will come forth. But it takes time.
